According to Lawal, after getting a man to fall for her, a girl on social media might start making false promises, invite him to visit her, or ask him for money, as stated in the passage: "she would so chat you up leeringly, invitingly, making false promises until she gets you to really fall for her, then she would start making demands... gradually you graduate into sending money to her account because she would have claimed to be in another city and she wanted to come visiting."