Wives maximize their singleness and do not fret over whom they would be found by, how and when they would be found. They trust God always and strive to please Him, knowing assuredly that good and perfect gifts come from Him.
Wives cherish their period of preparation and are not in a hurry to get over with it, which makes them not to compromise in their standards, principles and virtues according to God's word.
In fact, they are not in a hurry to jump out of their preparatory period for any man because they would only become incomplete and unfulfilled if they stopped half-way through their preparatory class.
A woman may try to "impress" in order to seek the approval of some men, wives are just impressive in all things. Not to get it wrong, wives may not be all that some men would want them to be, but most times they turn out to be what God wants them to the man so that he also can become what God wants him to be.
A woman may prefer you if your parents were dead, but a wife is groomed to handle the complicated patterns of relating with her in-laws. Wives are not rigid, rather they are malleable, trustworthy, loving and loveable, forgiving and forgivable, submissive and respected.
They are almost always prepared for your ministry and are willing to stand by you at both good and had times. Remember friends, except the woman is prepared she cannot be a wife.
The period of singleness is not just a period of waiting but more of the period of preparation and training for her man. If she's not prepared as a wife, it may be difficult to make her one.
Arise sisters, prepare yourself; be wives and not just women for it is only when a man finds a wife (and not a mere woman) that he finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord. MARRIAGE IS ABOUT WIVES NOT WOMEN.
(Adapted from Peculiar Truth, 2002)
"...but most times they turn out to be what God wants of them to the man so that he also can become what God wants him to be." means that:
A. Women are good advisers B. God makes wives for their husbands C. Husbands are made gods by their wives D. Wives help husbands fit into God's plan
